While we will be focusing on dating after divorce, this advice and these guidelines are great for all dating experiences. To get back into the dating field after a divorce takes intentional steps. You need to find out what you want and what are deal-breakers (your personal boundaries). Also, what to look for and when is a good time to “put yourself “ out there. It is a minefield at best, but here are some advice/guidelines for maneuvering it.